Do you prefer to be with someone who likes to save money or likes to spend?

[DiscomfortZone]

The thing is, and I believe it goes for most people - I have no inherent problem with any of the options in particular, as long as it's done in good taste. I would frown upon a woman making a tiny salary who allows herself to max out her benefactor's credit (whether her daddy or her "daddy"), and I'd likewise frown upon a high-tech girl making 10k a month who says she can't afford a whopper. I say live within your actual financial limits, be mature and have self-control, allow yourself to have some fun at times, and never, ever EVER SPEND SOMEBODY ELSE'S MONEY!!!

[lightbulb27]

Actually both, but spend in ways I enjoy. Financial sanity is important, but spend to enjoy in life.

[Cynicaldreamer]

I'm a pretty frugal person, so ideally I'd like a guy that's the same. He doesn't have to count every cent, but if he knows how to save, buy on a budget, yet spurgles on occasion or on things he really wants? That's fine.

It's people that try to live above their means that irk me.

[Reaperbot666]

I generally try to save whatever I can. so when I find something I really want. I can afford it without going broke or into debt.

but I do also spend a bit here and there of fun stuff.

so hopefully someone similar maybe.

[blutwolfe]

A saver, my ex was a spender, saving was hard for her. It would be nice to be with someone on the save wavelength, and be a bit more moderate with spending and save up to spend.

[JSmuve]

Save. Life can go sideways pretty quickly and if you blow all your money on frivolous crap, then you're gonna find yourself in a bad spot pretty fast with no easy way out.

[Dizazzter]

A saver can be talked into the occasional splurge, a spender can rarely be talked into saving.

[olderbutnotwiser]

spend... I don't have any want or need for money so if someone was a saver they would most likely dislike my lack of drive for money.

[AlongCameCindy]

Spend tbh, i find savers usually more boring.
I do tend to like live in the moment type people, but obviously that can also get you into some bad situations being that way.

[Drumlin2001]

Save.
I'm spend spend spend, so someone else like that would be terrible. My girlfriend is save, maybe too much sometimes, we're ying and yang

[Zoi02]

Like to be in middle is responsible like to have fun but save. Stretch that dollor.

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh, gahd. If they liked to spend money then I would avoid them like the plague.

[jamesgoldman]

Both... a saver with a taste for finery like myself

[Anonymous]

Somewhere in the middle. Yes be responsible and save and all that, but there's a time and place to use some of that savings for something big.

[Trooper205]

Both!!! There's a time to Save, and a time to Spend!!
Ultimately, I like a Girl who Saves up, but I look forward to cute Shopping Spree dates with my Girl!!

[Liam_Hayden]

Balance is the key. Pay bills, save, and then leave a portion for guilt-free fun.

[sdgtgjdeydd]

like to save of course
squandering money is would be annoying

[BeingSingleBlows]

It doesn't matter. There are more important things than money.

[Iron_Man]

When do girls spend money on me that's something new

[Primrose21]

Saver but not extreme frugality.

[taleets]

Likes to spend provides they have money to spend

[Account]

Likes to spend for others. Just like I like doing.