The thing is, and I believe it goes for most people - I have no inherent problem with any of the options in particular, as long as it's done in good taste. I would frown upon a woman making a tiny salary who allows herself to max out her benefactor's credit (whether her daddy or her "daddy"), and I'd likewise frown upon a high-tech girl making 10k a month who says she can't afford a whopper. I say live within your actual financial limits, be mature and have self-control, allow yourself to have some fun at times, and never, ever EVER SPEND SOMEBODY ELSE'S MONEY!!!
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I'm a pretty frugal person, so ideally I'd like a guy that's the same. He doesn't have to count every cent, but if he knows how to save, buy on a budget, yet spurgles on occasion or on things he really wants? That's fine.
It's people that try to live above their means that irk me.
A saver, my ex was a spender, saving was hard for her. It would be nice to be with someone on the save wavelength, and be a bit more moderate with spending and save up to spend.
Save. Life can go sideways pretty quickly and if you blow all your money on frivolous crap, then you're gonna find yourself in a bad spot pretty fast with no easy way out.
Spend tbh, i find savers usually more boring. I do tend to like live in the moment type people, but obviously that can also get you into some bad situations being that way.
Both!!! There's a time to Save, and a time to Spend!! Ultimately, I like a Girl who Saves up, but I look forward to cute Shopping Spree dates with my Girl!!
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