Should I be upset if the guy I’m seeing didn’t buy me a gift for my birthday?

Question

We’ve been seeing each other for 5 months already, I need help!

Answer 1

Danny_dan92

Guru

By “seeing” do you mean in a committed relationship? Or just dating and fucking?

Asker

4 mo
Just fucking. We hang out on occasions and he always come to spend the night over.
Asker

4 mo
I know he likes me, but i wish he shows more interests. Maybe I’m just another girl, nothing special
Danny_dan92

4 mo
Sounds to me like you’re nothing more than a pussy to fuck, in his eyes
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Danny_dan92

4 mo
So with that being said. He will only do just enough to keep you around so your pussy is within the reach of his dick but will do no more than that

Aka buying you nice shit for things like your bday
Asker

4 mo
Good to know 🥺
Danny_dan92

4 mo
Yep. Hate to be the bearer of bad news. But you’re just a number to him.

Clearly you got attached.

But the way you fix that is find another dick to bounce on, that is attached to a guy that actually wants to be with you. And not only fucks you for the pussy you got
Asker

4 mo
I will never understand men🥺 hate myself for falling for him
Danny_dan92

4 mo
Nah. It’s simple really, unless all you’re trying to do is fuck.

Don’t give it up until he makes you his girlfriend and make him talk and date you for a long time.

I had a “player” phase.

And I did not waste my time with any girl that didn’t give it up within the first 2-3 dates.

If date 3 went by and I still didn’t get my dick sucked and fucked?

I ghosted her. All fuck boys are the same in this regard
Asker

4 mo
We have talked about relationship before but he said “eventually”, and all my friends said that if a guy says eventually it’s usually no in a nice way. The reason why I know he likes me is because we spend time together whether it’s sex or no sex. We go on dates, we cook together basically everything together
Asker

4 mo
What guy would spend his time with me, no matter what we do. I just wish it wasn’t “eventually relationship”
Danny_dan92

4 mo
Yeah if a guy doesn’t want a relationship he isn’t going to say that he straight up wants a relationship
Danny_dan92

4 mo
He just said “eventually” to get your hopes up, you get all hyped, next thing you realize. Your legs are spread open, he’s dicking you down and your eyeballs have turned into the shape of hearts and you’re calling him “daddy” 🤣

And he’s looking down at you smiling thinking

“Yeah, I won. Got what I wanted”
Asker

4 mo
Dang! I gotta stop liking him, it’s so hard! I have to end it some point
Danny_dan92

4 mo
Just know that everytime you fuck him, from here on out. You’re only gonna be digging yourself deeper in that hole you’re in
Asker

4 mo
Yeah you’re right 🥺
Danny_dan92

4 mo
Trust.. I know I am

Answer 2

Asker

Just fucking. We hang out on occasions and he always come to spend the night over.

Answer 3

Asker

I know he likes me, but i wish he shows more interests. Maybe I’m just another girl, nothing special

Answer 4

Danny_dan92

Sounds to me like you’re nothing more than a pussy to fuck, in his eyes

Answer 5

Danny_dan92

So with that being said. He will only do just enough to keep you around so your pussy is within the reach of his dick but will do no more than that

Aka buying you nice shit for things like your bday

Answer 6

Asker

Good to know 🥺

Answer 7

Danny_dan92

Yep. Hate to be the bearer of bad news. But you’re just a number to him.

Clearly you got attached.

But the way you fix that is find another dick to bounce on, that is attached to a guy that actually wants to be with you. And not only fucks you for the pussy you got

Answer 8

Asker

I will never understand men🥺 hate myself for falling for him

Answer 9

Danny_dan92

Nah. It’s simple really, unless all you’re trying to do is fuck.

Don’t give it up until he makes you his girlfriend and make him talk and date you for a long time.

I had a “player” phase.

And I did not waste my time with any girl that didn’t give it up within the first 2-3 dates.

If date 3 went by and I still didn’t get my dick sucked and fucked?

I ghosted her. All fuck boys are the same in this regard

Answer 10

Asker

We have talked about relationship before but he said “eventually”, and all my friends said that if a guy says eventually it’s usually no in a nice way. The reason why I know he likes me is because we spend time together whether it’s sex or no sex. We go on dates, we cook together basically everything together

Answer 11

Asker

What guy would spend his time with me, no matter what we do. I just wish it wasn’t “eventually relationship”

Answer 12

Danny_dan92

Yeah if a guy doesn’t want a relationship he isn’t going to say that he straight up wants a relationship

Answer 13

Danny_dan92

He just said “eventually” to get your hopes up, you get all hyped, next thing you realize. Your legs are spread open, he’s dicking you down and your eyeballs have turned into the shape of hearts and you’re calling him “daddy” 🤣

And he’s looking down at you smiling thinking

“Yeah, I won. Got what I wanted”

Answer 14

Asker

Dang! I gotta stop liking him, it’s so hard! I have to end it some point

Answer 15

Danny_dan92

Just know that everytime you fuck him, from here on out. You’re only gonna be digging yourself deeper in that hole you’re in

Answer 16

Asker

Yeah you’re right 🥺

Answer 17

Danny_dan92

Trust.. I know I am

Answer 18

In_Trance | 81 opinions shared on Shopping & Gifts topic.

Master

Depends how materialistic you are. Is it really about getting a thing?

Asker

4 mo
No I don’t want expensive things or that he has to give to me something but I expected him to be there for me on my birthday. His birthday is in four months and I planned getting him stuff he likes for his birthday and actually being there with him. To show that I actually care about it
In_Trance

4 mo
I don't thinking getting "stuff" equates to being there. Do you really need more "stuff"?
Asker

4 mo
No haha i don’t think you’re getting my point. I don’t stuff, I want his time with me, I want him to show me that he actually cares about me, whether it’s showing me off to his parents or just staying home and baking something together. I don’t want to sit and wait for him to ask me to be his, I’ve been waiting for a long time
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In_Trance

4 mo
You say that, but it contradicts your initial question
Asker

4 mo
No not really, it just shows that I want someone to want me as much as I want them.
In_Trance

4 mo
Your question clearly states "a gift". It does not say his time

Answer 19

Asker

No I don’t want expensive things or that he has to give to me something but I expected him to be there for me on my birthday. His birthday is in four months and I planned getting him stuff he likes for his birthday and actually being there with him. To show that I actually care about it

Answer 20

In_Trance

I don't thinking getting "stuff" equates to being there. Do you really need more "stuff"?

Answer 21

Asker

No haha i don’t think you’re getting my point. I don’t stuff, I want his time with me, I want him to show me that he actually cares about me, whether it’s showing me off to his parents or just staying home and baking something together. I don’t want to sit and wait for him to ask me to be his, I’ve been waiting for a long time

Answer 22

In_Trance

You say that, but it contradicts your initial question

Answer 23

Asker

No not really, it just shows that I want someone to want me as much as I want them.

Answer 24

In_Trance

Your question clearly states "a gift". It does not say his time

Answer 25

Avicenna | 137 opinions shared on Shopping & Gifts topic.

Master

Yeah, that was a big mistake on his part

Asker

4 mo
Sadly🥺

Answer 26

Asker

Sadly🥺

Answer 27

Anonymous

Depends, what is his love language?

Asker

4 mo
He’s very affectionate
Opinion Owner

4 mo
So it is likely that he doesn't see gift giving as that important. So the next question is what is your love language?
Asker

4 mo
I’m caring. I love giving, it’s just a way I show someone that I care about them. It’s not that I wanted something expensive or anything it’s just... I wanted him to show me that he cared about me too
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Opinion Owner

4 mo
You should let him know that gift giving is your primary love language since it isn't his. You can work out as a couple with different love languages; but you both need to know what each other's languages are and remember to compensate for your differences.

Answer 28

Asker

He’s very affectionate

Answer 29

Opinion Owner

So it is likely that he doesn't see gift giving as that important. So the next question is what is your love language?

Answer 30

Asker

I’m caring. I love giving, it’s just a way I show someone that I care about them. It’s not that I wanted something expensive or anything it’s just... I wanted him to show me that he cared about me too

Answer 31

Opinion Owner

You should let him know that gift giving is your primary love language since it isn't his. You can work out as a couple with different love languages; but you both need to know what each other's languages are and remember to compensate for your differences.

Answer 32

Iron_Man | 589 opinions shared on Shopping & Gifts topic.

Master

Yes you should be upset

Asker

4 mo
Thxs🥺
Iron_Man

4 mo
You bet Hun

Answer 33

Asker

Thxs🥺

Answer 34

Iron_Man

You bet Hun

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