Am I doing the right thing?

It has been a week since I told my ex that I am pregnant, he is taking time to think, but I really think we need to discuss things, bit hard to make decisions together if we dont' do that. So I sent him a text saying that I know we are both busy over Xmas, so maybe we could find some time after Xmas to talk, I also said I know its not something either of us really want to be discussing. Then ending with let me know if you are ok with this, and I will understand if you don't want to talk.

Did I do the right thing? Am not trying to pressure him, but its not like its easy on me either.
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I sent the text at midday, its now evening, I know he is working, but I know he didn't work between midday and 6.30 pm. is it that hard to send a text back or what.
Am I doing the right thing?
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