anyhow 4 years ago I slept with one of them, this is brother one lets call him mike, we both got really drunk and things just happened but the morning after he started to tell me about this girl he had been dating which I knew nothing about. funny thing was this didn't upset me what did was founding out his brother lets call him Matt had had feels for me for over 5 years and couldn't say anything cos he was friends with my ex. I had always been closer to him then anyone else and never had feelings of love or anything for him, in time on a night out matt told me his feels I then knew what a mistake I have made, I really didn't want to hurt him but I ended up telling him about that night with his brother mike. 5mins after I told him he said he didn't care and asked me on a date, on the night of the date I didn't go! I didn't want to come between two brothers so in the end we stopped talking for a year.
so about a year ago we met up where he ended up sleeping with one of my friends which made me feel like...:( 2 months after that I told him how upset it made me and he said well he did it to hurt me...cos he wanted to be with me so badly.
anyhow me and Matt went on 3/4 dates and ended up sleeping together and sadly the day after he said he couldn't do it to mike his (brother)
we don't see much of each-other anymore and that's cos of me, but he texts me and even if I'm seeing someone new and trying to move he stops me.
he does say all he wants his to be friends but I can't dot that anymore.
Can anyone help me?