I know this may sound really ungrateful but I'm having a hard time wrestling with this...
My boyfriend (of three years) gave me lingerie for Christmas. The thing is, this wouldn't upset me if it was Valentine's Day or something of that sort, but Christmas? What was worse is that he got me to open it in front of his family in Christmas Day. AWKWARD!
This gift makes me feel really cheap and something that was completely thoughtless on his behalf.
During the Christmas season I am all about giving over receiving. I love the Christmas spirit and its all about spending time with the family but this has really thrown me off.
I feel like it's more of a gift for him than a gift for me. Every time I still think about it, I want to cry.
Girls do you feel the same or am I just overreacting?
He understood :)
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If you're that upset about it, you don't need to ask us if it's understandable. :) It's obvious he did something wrong just by the fact that you feel like crying.
For the record, I'd be upset too. I think you're absolutely right to feel this way.1