I just recently started seeing this guy who is in the military, we also work together and go to the same college. We've spent almost every night together since New Years Eve and I lost it to him a few nights ago. Now last night I learned he has to go to training from Jan 28th- Feb 14th, which I don't mind because it will lead to a big promotion for him. The problem is that we've been seeing each other for about a week with out telling me about it, I found out because he was talking to other people who he rarely sees about it while I happened to be standing there. Am I OK to be a little hurt that he told them directly but I had to find out in directly?
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you have a right to be upset about anything, I just don't think it's reasonable to be upset about this.
today is January 8. so he had 20 more days to tell you that. I think you're making problem out of nothing.
your behavior is actually very arrogant.2