Before what I just found out, this was going on:
She will act very compulsive when I'm around like acting weird. She doesn't always look me in the eye except when she talks to me, and when we are talking,she just carries on, turning her back to me to reach for something, all the while talking to me quite happily.
Then when I see her the next time, she totally blanks me, I have to say hi first, and all I get back is a hi, with a flick of the eyes to the side, while serving another customer, and she won't talk at all, and not even barely look at me. Basically giving me the silent treatment.
Some days she will say hi first, and make conversation, being really friendly, fun, and a sweet girl. She will also say hi outside on her breaks.
But she'll talk to and act different, more open, more talkative with other customers.
I decided to give her the silent treatment, and she seemed surprised and didn't try to talk to me. Then when I was leaving, she said "Bye!" in a nice way.
Anyway, When I was there the other day and she wasn't, one of the people she works said really quietly to another girl, but I heard it, she said "is that Jane's*?..." Jane's what?
So they all, including her, now know that I like her. Now what? I don't know how long she has known this. What do I do about her co-workers?
She's not running away or acting weird. She'll make chat.
* Jane is not her real name.
Just was totally oblivious to her before then. Then I realized how hot she is.
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Wow, this girl sounds so much like me.
Theres this guy I've known for a few years, he's the closest Guyfriend I've had without being sexual or being family.
I really liked him for awhile but then I thought he didn't like me back & he told me he liked me to when we for met but nothing ever happend anyway he has a girlfriend now, I actually work with her, she's really nice & he comes in everyday nearly. Someday everythings fine we chat & laugh & other days I'm really nervous & can barely look at him unless he says hi first & then I can pulll a small smile, but I really freak out, I really like this guy he's one of my closest friends, I really wish I could just keep my sh*t together because I know I'm probably confusing him heaps.
As well, what the girls at the work said, sounds to me like isn't that the guy that jane likes or he's the one that likes jane. If they were smiling or smirking your deffenitly no a stalker.
I've had girls at work tell me guys like me I never really believe it unless I see it 4 myself or he says something. & if she's shy like me sometimes she won't let herself see it so you might just have to say something, though I wouldn't do it at her work. Ask her out to the movies or out for an adventure in the city there's always cool places to find & then tell her you like her & ask her what she wants. This messaged turned out a lot longer than I wanted, but I hope it helps :)
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