My of 3 years recently just split from me after new years day. Three days after that I didn't here from. Finally I called and said what's going on. He said I don't want to be with you I can't talk to you the way I was talking we have tried. I hurt so much because he was so easily willing to give me up. He said I be friends with him. He said can we still talk.
I said "Do you ever see a future with me down the road" " Later on he said maybe two months or a year. He doesn't want to stop me from moving on. He said he doesn't have time and energy for the relationship.
We had problems before this he said iam not respectful,giving and communicating in the relationship. That for two years that is all he did was give. That before he broke up with me that I needed to reel him back in and try to get him back. He didn't feel loved.
I am hurting so much I have text him dozens of times. I said I loved him asked can we have a chance. He said maybe he doesn't know. Then I said "Can I do whatever I want" he said yes you can. You know what I mean readers.
It was weird I thought he was hiding something.
Then I had a dream he was with another girl!
I went into his email and he had a message between an escort and him not even after three days breaking up saying he is stressed can she help him out. He wanted to get laid.
I am hurting so bad its hard each day I feel I can't function at work.
I confronted him and he said that he would never be able to do something like that. I shouldn't be snooping and if he had a partner he would not of thought like that. He would 100% be a **** **** who deserves no one. He was lonely and hurting. I only want "you" the drama free, secure, giving, empathetic, and loving. ( These are texts sent that yur reading.)
He said he wants his space. I said if you love me you won't go sleep with her. He said remember how long it took for me to kiss her even if I wanted to which I don't.. He said same to you girlfriend no dating websites. Making a joke. I said OK buddy then he said don't like you calling me that we are suppose to be boyfriend LOL. I said oh wait we are broken up lol.
He said you know what I mean trying to add lightness to heavy feelings . Its a saying don't take it wrong. I said well buddy is a saying don't take it wrong.
I wasn't just coming from you I don't like it because I don't want to be your buddy. I want more, OK better? I am in good mood just trying to be funny.
I responded with not texting back and then he said " I love you".
I do really love him I know this sounds **** up but I want him back. I don't want him to sleep with that escort. What do I do? please please help!
Compliments, loving him, cooking, showing affection, sweet texts, doing little things being there for him all the time.
I have to ask what could I do to make a man feel loved or giving more in a relationship?