I was on this website (I won't name it), and I saw my friends live feed. I told her, "so you're good girl who does bad things huh." She says, "haha do you always look at my live feed" I said, "Lol I can't help but to see it." She said, "haha yeah right stalker :P" Offended & mad, I responded, Stalker? All right then, I'll leave you alone then smh." She ended the conversation by saying, "Dude, take a joke. Don't be so serious." Was I wrong to be offended by this? You can't be nice to a girl without being labeled a bad guy anymore!
Was I wrong to feel offended when she said i was a stalker and then told me it was a joke?
What Girls Said 4
Seems like you were looking for someone to validate your response, by the way you argue with everyone pointing at the logic. Fact is, you're taking it too seriously, is there a reason you're so defensive on the matter. What principle do you feel you're validating by defending it? Why do you consider being even humorously referred to a stalker to be completely inappropriate? What causes you such discomfort?
Well the smiley face and context spells out that she was just being sarcastic. Sorry you took it so hard.
Hope that helps - A0
It was a joke0
What Guys Said 4
Yes, you're wrong to feel offended. It's clear that she's just teasing you. Take all things easy, Bornnardmt. Girls always want to have fun and they don't take things seriously.0
Stalking is not something to joke about.0
I think with "haha" preceding it and the use of :P after it, it should have tipped you off that she was kidding with you.1
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