I have just started seeing a guy I have been chatting to for nearly 6mths and he is now talking about having an open relationship, I said, it would really bother me and I didn't want a guy who was screwing someone else. Was that the right thing to say? Should I expect monogamy when I was not aware it would be anything else? I am not intending to contact him I will leave him alone. Is that the right thing to do?
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Of course it's the right thing to do. Why is it OK for him to say he wants an open relationship, and not OK for you to say you want an exclusive relationship? You are entitled to your feelings and preferences. Open relationships are not for me, so if a man suggested we have one, I would express my feelings and end things most likely.3