Why is sexism considered by so many to be strictly male? Why is it that nobody ever seems to call it in women? Some girls can do or say some pretty horrible stuff, but nobody says or does anything. Like they think this is all perfectly acceptable. Why? Why is sexist hatred toward men so socially acceptable?
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It is all about what each gender believe about itself.
Men .. at least most of them , believe that they are stronger emotionally... they believe that they are more sensible and resilient... they also believe that women are too emotional , more vulnerable and sometimes not as rational as men ... thus... men do believe that it is inevitable that women would have emotional outbursts more often than men .. and trying to change that is futile . They also believe that they can handle such sexism on their own and that women won't be able to gang up against them and harm their existence. A man is not threatened by a woman calling another man a pig because if that pig dies tomorrow.. the man is not insecure about his existence ... basically men are confident women can't harm them , career wise, money wise, success wise , or over power them physically.
Women... at least most of them , do believe deep down inside , that they are more vulnerable than men, that life has dealt them an unfair set of cards ( pregnancy , physical weakness, periods etc) so even though they want to be equal .. they can see from a historical point of view how men ganged up and created a male dominated society... as they believe they are vulnerable.. women tend to feel solidarity more .. and will not be OK if a man call another woman a bitch .. because she will envision herself in her shoes and will feel threatened .. no matter how much this man has a point.. the feeling of threat from this stronger gender will push her to even at least think to side with the other woman a bit .. because she is ''not'' confident that the other gender will uphold her rights as a woman .. she is not confident that her career is safe or that money is available or that she can be physically protected ..
Bascially... women have more like a collective defence treaty hehe... while men are more like solo vagabonds
Ofcourse what I wrote above may be not 100% accurate for all men and women.. but what is important for ladies to know is that men are not really out there to get them , most men don't have any bitterness against women.. more like they are actually clueless about women lol ... however men do hate bitter women .. extreme feminists who make the relationship end like a gender war.. I wouldn't touch a lady like that with a mile long pole.. even if she is Miss Universe... men these days are having hard time decoding the modern day woman.. women are pushing the bar higher for men and men must find their place in an increasingly changing world . So a smart lady would know when to stand her ground and when to accept her man's imperfections.. it is all about balance , bring witty and compromise.0