I've heard "if it's meant to be then it'll be" or some version of it enough times to realize what it really is. It's a lot of bull. It's a saying that others (tbh, most I hear it from are women) use to try and avoid causing pain or to make things "easier" and give a false hope for the future. Really what it's saying is "we'll never see each other again, but I'm going to give you a small bit of hope cause it'll be easier on me if I don't realize how much I've hurt you."
If you REALLY want things to be, if you really want someone in some way, be it friendships or not, then you should fight for it. You can't be passive and expect karma or some other bullsh*t idea to do anything for you. So it's obvious those who say it are either idiots and expect things to magically get better later and some problem to be solved with time (it won't) or they are really just trying to avoid causing the other pain they know they will cause.
I say be honest entirely. If you never intend to talk with the other again, then say so. Tell em why. And move on. They'll get over it. And if not, well, then they're weak minded. No more of these false hopes or lies or any ideas that people come up with.
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Yeah I know ifs meant to be its not gonna happen by you doing NOTHING... I really hate hearing this so much because women think that if its meant to be itill happen in some magical way with them having to do nothing...it happens because you make it happen and its not really just women.1