I also think that this experience has completely changed my view of men, which isn't necessarily a bad thing. I think that most of them are pigs and relatively useless to me except if in the future I ever want to have sex again.
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It isn't your fault because you honestly never know what another person will do. The guy obviously didn't deserve you but it doesn't mean somebody else does. There are a lot of terrible "men" out there that are just "boys" running around messing with peoples lives. Seeing men as useless to you for anything other than sex is only going to provide you with more pain and you will definitely end up a bitter old woman with that attitude. You need to admit to yourself that you had ONE bad experience but there are literally billions of potential GREAT experiences and you really may only need to find one to be happy for the rest of your life. Try looking at people you don't think you would usually date because sometimes a really great guy is standing right under your nose and you don't even know it.