So lets say you see a girl YOU KNOW (and text w even). She comes towards you and sits close to you, is happy and smiling. You, on the the other hand, freeze in your chair. You stiffen your shoulders, you don't even look up and say hello. You're frozen like a deer in headlights. You act as though she isn't there, stare down at your phone. She eventually has to break the ice and say hello. You still can't look at her but eventually warm up. You do so by laughing at anything, tease her, even playfully make fun and call her names. Do you do this because.
A. You don't ike her and wish she didn't show up.
B. like her, in fact so much that you panic and have no idea how to act. In fact, you feel like an idiot even just sitting there in silence so you start tapping your knee. You're nervous. (WHY?)
C. Don't want to talk to her and tease hoping shed leave.
Update: To be clear, you have absolutely no problem talking to other girls and interacting with them, eye contact, hugging them etc. With her, you feel more comfortable sitting a seat away and am very jumpy if she accidentaly or casually touches you. Why is she different?
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It is either one of two things. Either he likes you and may have gotten nervous by your approach. This is pretty common if the guy is shy or really likes the girl. Sometimes too much thought enters a guys brain and causes us to freeze up; we're thinking about what to say, how to act, where to put our hand. We have to seem cool for our ladies. OR he was really distracted by something else, his mind was focused on that when you approached, and you were just breaking him out of his concentration at which point he went into normal mode. Actually there is a third option too, which is both of those combined. He was thinking about something else and his mind was on that. He also likes you and the combination of being brought out of his thoughts by you caused his brain to stumble. I would vote option three.
FYI you started that off the same way a really bad college p*rno would start out.1
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