I've been seeing this guy for the past month or so and would talk non stop throughout the day. We've gone out a few times and he seems very into me but we're not official or anything. I know he's seeing other women even though he says he's not. I told him that I'm not comfortable seeing him while he's seeing others. He also keeps asking me to have patience while he figures out what he wants. The past week or so he's been texting/calling a lot less and when we talk on the phone its for a few min, he says he'll call me right back and I don't hear from him for hours or until the next day.
He's always telling me that we have a lot of potential and that I'm the kind of person he's been looking for. If this is the case then why see others? Should I not say anything about how we talk a lot less and just give him space to figure things out? I really like this guy and want to try to make this work. Any advice would be great. Thanks
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Because we guys look often at what else is available, before choosing. You'll never know for sure, but you can hope he goes for you, just keep shopping for another guy. We guys need some time to compute the information and rationalize our decisions. Also, he has told you "we have potential" meaning your in my favorite channel list. We need time to screen for unwanted information before sticking to a T.V channel. Who knows what else might show up next.
So you know, feeling arousal for other women isn't cheating, but acting on the arousal is...remember that.
Just keep the connection alive. It's the best you can do. The ball is on his court.0