Then on Christmas day I emailed him to say merry Christmas. Then later that day he texted saying he hadn't checked his email because his internet wasn't working and said he had been meaning to call me but time hadn't been on his side. Then he said 'You don't call, you don't text, even when I have not inboxed you you don't even try and make contact. I don't know if we're together or not. For all I know you could have left the country and for all you know I could have got run over. If this is going to work there needs to be commitment from the both of us'. Then I explained that I was contacting him as I emailed him that morning and I bought him a Christmas present, so he apologized. Then a week later when there was a problem between us he brought it up again and said, 'You said you liked me but how can you like someone when you just fall out of contact for days, no text, no call, no nothing. One email is all I received from you.
I'm confused because technically he was the one who fell out of contact with me because he didn't reply. Although he did usually call or text first, I was the one who emailed him first so I was keeping contact. I don't get why he was complaining that I didn't call or text him in that week when he didn't call or text me either, and he thought his reason for not calling was a valid excuse. And because there was a problem between us, he hasn't contacted me in 6 weeks. So why was he accusing me?