yes I am sure you have heard it all before. but here's my story.
I joined a gym new years resolution and all the rest and as part of that I had to do an induction, turns out the guy who took me on this was really cool and I was attracted to him. He is not your everyday drop dead gorgeous gym instructor bunny but there was just something about him. So a few weeks went on and I swear he was watching me at the gym (maybe I just have tickets on myself :) Anyway he has his own Personal Training programme through the gym so I contacted him and organised to do this.
We met at the gym last weekend to talk through the programme and things, I was a bit nervous around him but it all went well. Today I had my first session, I loved it! was very hardcore in terms of intensity but I felt very comfortable with him and he helped me when I was struggling. We talked and stuff as it went on and seem to get along really well and have quite a few things to talk about and in common.. (I know trainers are paid to be nice to their clients) he asked me what I was doing in the weekend, more than once. I enjoyed the work out and plan on many more but as an added bonus I enjoyed his company too a little too much.
When I got to my car I looked at my phone and it had been 2 hours! the workout was only meant to be for one, so I felt a little bad I had kept him for two hours- I didn't realize but we must of just ran over time. he gave me a sample of something to try which I did when I got home and I txed him to tell him thanks and that it was great. He replyed back straight away and we texted a couple of more times (just related to gym stuff) then the conversation kind of ended. I will continue my traning and this isn't affected by my feelings but I really feel like there could be something there and he is the type of guy I would love to get to know and spend more time with.
Where do I go from here? I don't think he has a girlfriend- but how do I know? and I am unsure if he would see his clients out of the gym and I don't want to be all full on. I am not in a rush and maybe need to get to know him a little bit better but in my mind also I feel like if he wanted to see me he would ask the question.
Also when I have been at the gym in the week he has always made sure to say hi and I have felt his eyes watching me (still could be me thinking this and him being nice)
Any advice? It is a bit of a prediciment but apparently quite common.. Imagine getting a great body and guy!