My ex-boyfriend broke up with me a week ago, telling me that he needs time to be with this new girl he started to like. I am pregnant and hurt because I been with him 4years and they knew each other a year ago but when they saw each other and she saw me, she stop seeing him for alone time and I knew that already and I was living with him all that years. But I am the stupid one that always had a argument with him always leave at his house but I always just to be there for him and did a lot of things that girl doesn't do to him. he told me I'm very different to her that to give him time that he doesn't know what's going to happend, to give him one more week so he could decide witch one he's going to stay.
I want him back to me, if not I stay single and think about myself and my baby girl I'm about to have...he told me to give him a week and always calling me in the morning on his way to work, telling me that he steel have feeling for me but I be asking myself why is he with her if he have feeling for me. but the answer comes to me that all the bad things I done to him I hurt him by going out and meeting new friends but then I change. I always was home for him and take care of him...
I'm just so confuse
he told me that I'm his girl for life that just want see what's going to happend between them, if it doesn't work he will come back to me..
i just want to know if I should give him time and not contacting him or pick up his phone calls.
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He is the father of your child, if he chooses not to be with you there isn't much you can do. Speak to him about how your pregnancy is progressing and that is all.
It seems has if he isn't mentality mature enough to be a dad yet, and is looking for a way out. He seems confused has to exactly what he wants to do,
He needs to realize life doesn't wait for him to make decisions or get ready, he has to be now because this baby is coming.
If he isn't there for you at least make sure he is there for his child .
So at this point although you may not like his actions, ignoring his calls may not be the best thing to do because you need him in your child's life.
Hopefully his mind will change and he will be back with you, but don't hope for it. (
Even if you two over come this, how can you trust that he will be committed to you?)
You both have a lot to work out.
You deserve better not someone stringing you along.3