Also, have you ever had the opposite happen? Like someone tells you that they have feelings for you and then you end up loosing interest.
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I've had a few guys in my life with whom I felt they lost interest once I made it known I liked them back. The last one was my most recent ex. He pursued me for a couple of months; and he did so very intensely. At first, I wasn't sure if I liked him or if I even wanted to like someone (had some relatively sh*tty experience with a guy a few months earlier). But my ex was very persistent. He did everything you can imagine to get my attention, and to get me to like him. Basically, he said all the things he knew I wanted to hear. Eventually I gave in and agreed to go on a date. It usually takes me a while until I like someone a lot, or rather, until I feel comfortable about showing it. Well, after two months of dating he stopped sending me text messages, and only sent emails. But even those not as frequently as he used to. He was tired a lot of the time, whereas he used to stay up when I was still in my "I don't know if I like you" phase.
There have been a few other guys who pulled a similar thing. That's why I'm quite happy being single. I don't really want to feel like I wasted my time on some guy again who only likes me until I like him back.