The type that can be jolly, loud, carefree and nice? My cousin has that exact type of personality, she's a happy go lucky girl, nice and fairly pretty but she says she has never had suitors or has been in a relationship? We're close so we share stuff to one another, she says she's been to a lot of places and been there for a while, but she has never had anyone who would find her interesting, she dances and
she's quite the talented type in our family, so I guess that woud be a plus factor for guys to get attracted to? She however, is on the the heavy side.. But not big enough to be called obese, just chubby I guess? Hohoho sooo.. What do you guys think?
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Yes, most guys like girls who are positive and outgoing.
Many guys won't date heavier girls, though. I'm not saying it's right or justified, just that it's true. With some guys, it's just their preference, and other guys will tell you that girls tend to gain weight in relationships and just over time in general, so a girl who is big to start with isn't likely to improve, or even stay the same.
Some of this depends on how big she is and how she carries the weight. Some girls are heavier than average, but they carry the weight in all the right places (boobs, butt, hips) and still have fairly thin waists, flat stomachs, and small upper arms and thighs. Other girls have weight that goes to their waist, thighs, upper arms, etc. and aren't going to be seen as being as attractive. That's the cold, hard truth.
It may not be the weight, though. Maybe she just doesn't put herself out there in a romantic/sexual way. Most guys fear asking girls out, and only approach them AFTER the girl has flirted with them and shown some sexual/romantic interest in him, so he knows that she's likely to accept his request. If your cousin doesn't flirt with guys, or return those signals when guys DO show her some attention, she's going to wait a long time before guys ask her. She has her roll to play in the game, just as he does.1