I am tired of finding women with an excessive amount baggage.
I am tired of women wanting to tell me there problems and then them getting pissed at me because I tell the truth.
Should I just start giving women ultimatums?
example; I am going to be at your house at 8pm, be ready!
or "I don't want to hear about your problems"
Next time I just want to ask a women that I am seeing if I she even finds me attractive at all. If she says no then I am gone.
A woman shouldn't have a bunch of guy friends that she leads on and then never do anything with them.
I don't want to wait forever until I am dead to have sex with someone I like. I don't want to wait 2 years of more for some women to come around.
So basically am I finding the screwed up ones or am I a push over?
I won't do riduclous sh*t just to get laid to impress a women.
If she wants someone to drive her to the airport and we are not dating then she can call a cab.
Should I start acting like a d***?
If not then why do women say bullsh*t like they want a man who will listen and be kind to them?
Because I am starting to think that even the shy and quite ones also want drama.
secondly, I don't want to be an a**hole or a douche bag. I am always going to be genrally a kind person and that will never change.
I am not going to change myself for anyone unless there is a reasonable reason why.
I will state what's on my mind, but I try not to be a jerk, I just try to keep from being a door mat.
I mean like when you ask a woman if she wants to have sex then says yes and f***s all your friends and then later try to claim that she was raped. I don't mean there was miscomunication. I had witnesses. She just wanted to send me to jail because I guess I was friends with some people that she was trying to get even with.
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What do you think dating is? I will tell you what *I* think it is. Dating is going out with people and trying to figure out if they suck or not. If they do suck, how much do they suck- do they suck too much to deal with, or is their suckage within acceptable parameters? Sometimes I think the person sucks. Sometimes the person thinks *I* suck. Sometimes we both think the other is okay, and then... someone starts to suck. Then we break up. The process begins again with a new person. That will happen- to me, at least- until I find someone who keeps not sucking who also thinks I don't suck. We might be together for a long time, neither of us sucking, until one or the other of us dies. The End. That's dating. I date different men, and eventually SOMEBODY sucks until maybe one day nobody sucks and I live happily ever after. There will be a**holes who are mean to me, and nice guys I don't have anything in common with, and guys I think are awesome who aren't that into me... this is how it goes. What are you looking for? You want to find someone who doesn't suck, right? Who also thinks you don't suck, right? Well... you have to keep looking! You will feel annoyed and you will feel taken advantage of, and you will have your heart broken, and you will make mistakes, and women will confound you and you won't understand AND WELCOME TO REAL LIFE.