I've gone to this gym for 3 months now and I've been eye flirty with this cardio trainer. We have never shared a real conversation, just crossed words three times and all for irrelevant reasons like "is a treadmill available?", "we're out of tissues over there", "can I help you" type of things.
We get very tense when walking past each other. We're always searching each other with the gaze and will hold gazes for seconds. Hell even sit on a machine or stand right next to me when I'm working out in some station, but he won't say a word. He's very social, everybody knows him at the gym, but around me he's just there, a mummy. I've caught him staring and spying on me like really, looking around a corner with big eyes, hiding the rest of his body. It's ridiculous.
Why won't he say a word?!
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You are not going to believe it but I go through the same thing right now, I caught the trainer staring at me, at first I thought he was staring at someone else but then I realized that every time I attend a class like cardio or pilates I see him staring at me,he usually stands or talks to someone outside the class and I can clearly see him through the mirror, sometimes I workout on my own with dumbbells in front of the mirror he's across the room but I see him looking at me. When I go to the gym or leave the gym he's usually at the lobby when I greet him or the girl at the reception desk he looks down or seems busy with something he never looks at my face..so am I just overreacting? Why is he acting like that I have no idea,when I say 'goodbye' while leaving he says goodbye but his face is always looking down he never looks at my face. What to do?!0