We get very tense when walking past each other. We're always searching each other with the gaze and will hold gazes for seconds. Hell even sit on a machine or stand right next to me when I'm working out in some station, but he won't say a word. He's very social, everybody knows him at the gym, but around me he's just there, a mummy. I've caught him staring and spying on me like really, looking around a corner with big eyes, hiding the rest of his body. It's ridiculous.
Why won't he say a word?!
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You are not going to believe it but I go through the same thing right now, I caught the trainer staring at me, at first I thought he was staring at someone else but then I realized that every time I attend a class like cardio or pilates I see him staring at me,he usually stands or talks to someone outside the class and I can clearly see him through the mirror, sometimes I workout on my own with dumbbells in front of the mirror he's across the room but I see him looking at me. When I go to the gym or leave the gym he's usually at the lobby when I greet him or the girl at the reception desk he looks down or seems busy with something he never looks at my face..so am I just overreacting? Why is he acting like that I have no idea,when I say 'goodbye' while leaving he says goodbye but his face is always looking down he never looks at my face. What to do?!