This is pissing me off. Even girls I know are single say that. I know they are saying that cause they aren't interested, but damn I may not be either when I barely even know you. Usually when they say that I just just say OK, well it was worth a try and then I'll just say nice meeting you and walk away. Should I be doing something different? I'm tempted to say I have a dog and just pretend she didn't say that the next time a girl pulls that sh*t.
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Well I can answer only 2 times per question...so that's my full point. You meet one of those, you say whatever it is you say to them and they say "Sorry, I've got a boyfriend". You can say what you thought but not being way too rude or anything. Did you ever reply to that with "So what?" may continue or may not. If you want her naked in your bed it simple as that - CHANGE THE APPROACH! You're young, seem intelligent and you're probably attractive... If you don't know her and just meet her now, gotta be like really cheesy but not creepy stuff like: "I've never met you, you look very beautiful, my name is "something", what's YOUR name (yeah, accent on it). If you've seen each other around and kinda been there already with the name sh*t just walk to the girl and be like casual, like you don't care as much if she'd ever want you, but in the same way showing interest. I know, I know, it's confusing...they're annoying, I know, but being yourself is good in a relationship, in sex terms not really. Also you can still be what you are, just changing the attitude. Be like "Haven't seen you a while, "blabla", how are you? When she says she's OK work trough stupid mindless questions like that to which you already know the answer to before asking for a date or whatever you ask them that gives you the "I've got a boyfriend" reaction. Compliments are important but don't over do them as well, she'll think you're a creeper. If you squeeze trough some pointless questions and see her smile pop up the date sh*t.
Remember girls like these like attention. They all the time have unofficial contests with their "best girlfriends". All you have to do is get one of those interested in you then you go pre-selective on them which means - one girl likes boy for no reason, when another girl is around him, she wonders if that other one is around him maybe he's cool and and worth to be selected. Do that you'll have most of them. But gotta get one to pay you attention. Look at their lips more than the eyes, and make them laugh with jokes...
It's very long answer but like I said in the beginning I only got 2 times right to answer and you were interested. Of course I don't know the situations but it gives me that your approach is weak. Change it to more little questions with cheesiness and jokes, occasionally looking the lips and BE CONFIDENT THAT YOU GOT HER even though you're not sure one outta 3 should be interested in this! That wraps it together. Hope it helps! :P
Girls would kill me probably for that post...0