Cyber-Bullying VS Real Bullying and why too many people are TOO sensitive

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Ok, so I just finished watching someone review the movie "Unfriended" and something caught my attention. The Internet-ghost hasn't done anything by this point except join the main characters Skype call and posted some embarrassing photos of one of the characters. They try to end the call then join back in to make the ghost or "Mysterious Caller". So they join back together and one of them say. "Did you call the police?" That is when I just can't fathom how stupid these people are. Other then just sit in a Skype call and post some embarrassing pictures of somebody, nothing serious has happened yet. (Hell if you don't like the pictures MAYBE you shouldn't go out getting black out drunk. You are responsible for what you do even if you are drunk. If you kill someone but have no memory of it because you were blackout drunk, does that mean you get off Scott-free? NO.

That leads me to Cyber-Bullying, and how not serious it is. Cyber-Bullying refers to the act of one person or multiple people calling names, making fun of, and releasing private videos and pictures in more extreme cases. How you can deal with cyber- bullying is simple, is a person or people calling you names and making fun of you? Close that tab and find something else to do. It's like it was never there in the first place. Are they releasing embarrassing videos and pictures of you on the internet? Well that's your own fault, because in most cases YOU took the video/picture. Why would you record something embarrassing if you didn't want people to see it? I know the most talked about is the whole GF- Revenge Porn thing and yes its wrong to release video without permission and they definitely shouldn't have done that. but these people that have done it obviously don't care about right or wrong so the next best thing to say would be. Don't record yourself having sex if you don't want people to see it. (Porn actors and actresses already do that)

Also, i read something recently saying "Sure we can just ignore the cyberbullies like we would change the channel on the TV if we see something we don't like. what we should be doing though is getting to that channels roots and removing the problem all together". Which is stupid thing to try and suggest. It's literally saying " I don't like it, so no one else ever can". Let me ask you something, who would dictate what cyber-bullying counts as to be able to take proper action? Cyber-bullying is subjective, something that might hurt your feelings, but won't hurt mine. The best thing we can do to stop cyber-bullying is to ignore them, not give them the attention they want. they get bored, go away, over. But people make such a big deal about it, taking this easy to solve "Problem" and turning it into victim points to get the most attention, gaining the bully even more attention.

Real Bullying, the kind of bullying you usually CAN'T walk away from, the kind of Bullying that can Physically hurt you. the kind that actually matters. no one is hidden behind a screen. And that should be enough description on that.

Sticks and Stones may break my bones but words may never hurt me. This saying died when people became too sensitive and wanted everything to change to there needs so they didn't have to change themselves.

Cyber-Bullying VS Real Bullying and why too many people are TOO sensitive.

Cyber-Bullying VS Real Bullying and why too many people are TOO sensitive
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