You can go through life always wishing and wanting for better or you can go out and get it.
I don’t know why some of you want to be a passive your whole life. You might be 18. You might be 50. Either way, you’re still afraid. But why?
I heard a lot of people saying, I want to meet hotter girls/guys. I want to get in shape. I want to be confident.
Then fucking do it!
No one is stopping you except yourself. The reason most people don’t succeed is because they pussy out way too fast.
How You Pussy Out
1-) You make up excuses for things you know you should do
2-) You say tomorrow, every fucking day. “I’ll do it tomorrow…tomorrow, tomorrow, to-fucking-morrow.”
3-) Things are too hard for you so you just give up.
4-) You get scared of the outcome.
5-) You come up with creative disaster scenarios that probably will never happen.
6-) You’re afraid of the consequences.
7-) You don’t think you will be able to recover if things don’t go well.
The reality is, anything worth it, is not going to be easy. This isn’t the first time you’ve heard this and it won’t be the last.
But I like Being Passive " Not Doing Anything " Who Are You To Judge Me ?
You can be a pussy if you want. I’m just afraid when you’re old and life has passed you by, you will have wished you weren’t like that.
When you’re a passive one, you don’t get what you want in life. Let’s think about what happens when you are living "in a bubble" :
1-) You see a hot girl. But you’re afraid. So you walk away instead of trying to hit on her.
2-) You want a new job. But think you aren’t qualified. So you pussy out. Rather than apply and find out. You give up before you even try.
3-) You want to say something. Maybe something nice. Maybe something mean. Maybe stand up for yourself. But you’re afraid of other people’s reactions. So you don’t say shit.
4-) You want to become an awesome person. But it takes a lot of work. Changing how you think. How you look. Going to the gym. Getting balls. It’s easier to just be a "normal" at home watching TV, social media shit and surfing the internet for hours.
5-) You are unhappy with where you are in life. But you’re doomed yourself to just accept it. "This is how my life is. Maybe my next life will be different". Why do some of you people talk like this?
Good Things Will Happen When You Remove Passive Mentality
The truth is, when you start thinking about the big picture and you start taking control of your life, you begin your own journey of awesomeness…good things will happen.
Everything starts with the first step
1-) When you approach more girls, your chances of getting laid or forming good/exciting relationships rise.
2-) When you start asking for help, you’ll probably get the help you want. even if it didn't happen quickly, the surrounding people will recognize you more.
3-) When you start saying things you want to say, you will be heard. YES ! RESPECT IS EARNED.
4-) When you start living the life you want, you’ll be happier.
This is really common sense, But sometimes you just need a reminder. I get that. I also get that it’s not easy to just change.
But good things happen to those that try. Don’t believe the idea that good things come to those that wait. And never ever think for a second that good things come to those that are passives.
You can get everything you want in life if you develop the champion mentality and go for it.
It’s Not Easy..But It’s Worth It!
I know it’s hard to change your mentality. And I say this in all seriousness. It’s fucking hard. You are who you are and it’s a daunting task to change. But really, you have to ask yourself if you want to be a little bitch your whole life.
Take control of your life. Being a passive is not worth it. Living life and going after what you want is!
Most Helpful Opinions