Was bullied by best friend and he was popular too. In india, at least, in our society, boys and girls dont interact often. One of my best friends made friends with an attractive girl. He was so excited. He wanted to do everything that could proove him better than others. So he bullied me. He tried to show that how he was better than me. The girl and he laughed at me.
I sat quietly because i was a disciplined child and my teachers didn't think bad about me and i didn't want this to reach my parents.
It was matter of discipline for me. So i kept calm.
When i told this to my friends, they excluded him from our friend group and never talked to him
OMG I'm in tears pet. I got beat up all through school girls 3-4 years younger even dragged me. I am quite bitchy and start a lot of the time so I deserve most of it but not you pet
Believe in karma, Some people bully for no reason I'm the one who does that. I'm super rich and had everything and unstoppable, but fast forward 7 years I was suffering with vitiligo and of course there is no cure for that it took me many years to feel the pain and I realized.. There used to be a guy who was mentally retarded and I with my friend used to have fun by bulling him and similar other who are weaker..
Ignore the rudeness and hatred, smile back at the people who are rude to you..
Good luck..
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There are many reasons why people bully in most bullying problems it is that the people that are doing it are not happy in themselves and they see something in you that they wish they had themselves not only that they enjoy having the power once u show that they don't have that power they are done for. For yourself it may sound hard but keep your head up remember your the better person and there are many people that u are able to talk to and don't let them get to you enjoy the person you are show yourself to the world and put yourself out there bullying can stop if u make it stop that's the bit u have to work out push hard and work hard and u will come out on top and by the end u will be happy in who u are.
Got bullied once... took their head and slammed it into a locker. Everyone realized that, even though I was small for my age, I can stand up for myself and hold my ground. People that don't think it is as simple as that are deluded.
I was bullied as a teen but see it was a good thing because I learned early in life to fight back and I did fight back and I bullied the bullies so all this anti bullying campaign stuff it is not good because if you have teachers and cops fighting your battles for you when you are a teen then when you are an adult you will let people walk all over you.
I was the outcast in my school, or one of them at least. They made life rough until I learned to not give a fuck what they think. If my lip ain't bleeding then they didn't have much to say did they? Don't talk about it be about it then you won't have to worry about it.
I used to be a bully-beater. I fought anyone who picked on someone else, who didn't fight back. I had bullies too, I fought them, they stopped bullying me.
Don't let bullies weaken you and your resolve. That's how they win. They are weak minded, troubled individuals. And the worst part about bullying is that if it wins, you become a bully yourself, like bullying vampirism.
You have to be very careful of some people, they literally will hold vendettas for life just because they are bored. Some races of people are worse than others, I will make a very broad statement now, that Christian schools are better than public schools at dealing with bullying. Christianity is not every man for himself, it's a moral obligation to be a good person.
even if you may have no friends without them (which aren't even friends) its WAY better to leave them. they're bitches. this pisses me offffffffffff can i have their social media? just wanna bully them back.
You'll never stop bullying as long as all you do is telling those who are bullied to "speak up". Because bullies don't understand that. All they understand is power. You want to stop bullying? Teach kids to stand up for themselves, run into the bullies and do as much damage as possible. Once the bully has tasted his own medecine, he'll learn to lay down and not bother other people.
I agree entirely. I was bullied as a child as well and hated every second of it. Unfortunately, I dont think it can be stopped. I think it can be controlled to a certain extent and people obvisously need to be reprimanded for it and need to suffer the consequences. But I dont think we will ever be rid of it.
I'm very sorry to hear this. That's Just awful. please don't be friends anymore with any of these people they're just tearing you down and you surely don't want to kill yourself over these losers. Who wants a friend like that just to say that you have a friend, they are pretty much useless. This is a good site for you to be on to let it all out. You're a good person I can sense goodness in you. Hold your head up high and keep the faith
I've been bullied and the only way out was to fight them back and shut their mouths. That's something that I'm not proud of it but no one helped me so I taked things in my hands.
I ended up moving schools due to bullying and sometimes standing up for yourself or contacting the school isn't enough because they still target you and it sucks. All you have to do is remain strong
There is nothing you can do to stop bullying. There are always going to be shitty people in the world. What you can do is report it whenever it happens, whether it's to you or to someone else.
Bullies have existed since the caveman days. Many people like to dominate others; that's why absolute power corrupts absolutely. You beat a bully by pushing back sometimes physically.
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People bully others when they have something to hide about thier life. It is a social thing that happens with both animals and humans. It will continue to happen unfortunately, but remember that no matter what having a friend to back you up or just to have a shoulder to lean on to is good.
Do you really expect it to stop just because you posted something on the internet? No, there will always be assholes and bullies, you can't stop it. All you can do is teach people to deal with it properly.
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Was bullied by best friend and he was popular too.
In india, at least, in our society, boys and girls dont interact often.
One of my best friends made friends with an attractive girl. He was so excited. He wanted to do everything that could proove him better than others. So he bullied me. He tried to show that how he was better than me. The girl and he laughed at me.
I sat quietly because i was a disciplined child and my teachers didn't think bad about me and i didn't want this to reach my parents.
It was matter of discipline for me. So i kept calm.
When i told this to my friends, they excluded him from our friend group and never talked to him
OMG I'm in tears pet. I got beat up all through school girls 3-4 years younger even dragged me. I am quite bitchy and start a lot of the time so I deserve most of it but not you pet
No one deserves to be bullied.
Exactly
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XvNzf_GwJ3k
I'm sorry for you, but you need to be strong,
Believe in karma, Some people bully for no reason I'm the one who does that. I'm super rich and had everything and unstoppable, but fast forward 7 years I was suffering with vitiligo and of course there is no cure for that it took me many years to feel the pain and I realized.. There used to be a guy who was mentally retarded and I with my friend used to have fun by bulling him and similar other who are weaker..
Ignore the rudeness and hatred, smile back at the people who are rude to you..
Good luck..
There are many reasons why people bully in most bullying problems it is that the people that are doing it are not happy in themselves and they see something in you that they wish they had themselves not only that they enjoy having the power once u show that they don't have that power they are done for. For yourself it may sound hard but keep your head up remember your the better person and there are many people that u are able to talk to and don't let them get to you enjoy the person you are show yourself to the world and put yourself out there bullying can stop if u make it stop that's the bit u have to work out push hard and work hard and u will come out on top and by the end u will be happy in who u are.
People who get bullied need to man the fuck up. I got bullied but I fought back and it stopped. It's a dog eat dog world.
If someone tries to bully you grab a chair and hit them over the head with it. Or stand up for yourself.
Got bullied once... took their head and slammed it into a locker. Everyone realized that, even though I was small for my age, I can stand up for myself and hold my ground. People that don't think it is as simple as that are deluded.
I was bullied as a teen but see it was a good thing because I learned early in life to fight back and I did fight back and I bullied the bullies so all this anti bullying campaign stuff it is not good because if you have teachers and cops fighting your battles for you when you are a teen then when you are an adult you will let people walk all over you.
I was the outcast in my school, or one of them at least. They made life rough until I learned to not give a fuck what they think. If my lip ain't bleeding then they didn't have much to say did they? Don't talk about it be about it then you won't have to worry about it.
I used to be a bully-beater. I fought anyone who picked on someone else, who didn't fight back.
I had bullies too, I fought them, they stopped bullying me.
Don't let bullies weaken you and your resolve. That's how they win.
They are weak minded, troubled individuals. And the worst part about bullying is that if it wins, you become a bully yourself, like bullying vampirism.
Don't let it happen.
You have to be very careful of some people, they literally will hold vendettas for life just because they are bored.
Some races of people are worse than others, I will make a very broad statement now, that Christian schools are better than public schools at dealing with bullying.
Christianity is not every man for himself, it's a moral obligation to be a good person.
I've met lots of Christian bullies
@Reach500 well they ain't good Christians.
Nah bin to both a the Christian school got bullied on the public school not even once
even if you may have no friends without them (which aren't even friends)
its WAY better to leave them. they're bitches. this pisses me offffffffffff
can i have their social media? just wanna bully them back.
You'll never stop bullying as long as all you do is telling those who are bullied to "speak up".
Because bullies don't understand that. All they understand is power.
You want to stop bullying? Teach kids to stand up for themselves, run into the bullies and do as much damage as possible.
Once the bully has tasted his own medecine, he'll learn to lay down and not bother other people.
I agree entirely. I was bullied as a child as well and hated every second of it. Unfortunately, I dont think it can be stopped. I think it can be controlled to a certain extent and people obvisously need to be reprimanded for it and need to suffer the consequences. But I dont think we will ever be rid of it.
I'm very sorry to hear this. That's Just awful. please don't be friends anymore with any of these people they're just tearing you down and you surely don't want to kill yourself over these losers. Who wants a friend like that just to say that you have a friend, they are pretty much useless. This is a good site for you to be on to let it all out. You're a good person I can sense goodness in you. Hold your head up high and keep the faith
Not surley I mean certainly
Do your parents stick up for you and complain to the school about this?
I don't tell them... I don't want them involved
I've been bullied and the only way out was to fight them back and shut their mouths. That's something that I'm not proud of it but no one helped me so I taked things in my hands.
I ended up moving schools due to bullying and sometimes standing up for yourself or contacting the school isn't enough because they still target you and it sucks. All you have to do is remain strong
There is nothing you can do to stop bullying. There are always going to be shitty people in the world.
What you can do is report it whenever it happens, whether it's to you or to someone else.
Bullies have existed since the caveman days. Many people like to dominate others; that's why absolute power corrupts absolutely. You beat a bully by pushing back sometimes physically.
People bully others when they have something to hide about thier life. It is a social thing that happens with both animals and humans. It will continue to happen unfortunately, but remember that no matter what having a friend to back you up or just to have a shoulder to lean on to is good.
Do you really expect it to stop just because you posted something on the internet? No, there will always be assholes and bullies, you can't stop it. All you can do is teach people to deal with it properly.