Sex with classmate, a guy.. Whether he likes me?

[Peloti]

Hi I had one night sex with my classmate after party and we were both drunk. We never talk so much in the class before so that night sex was weird. He told me how hot I am and he just wanted to have sex again and again. Even in the morning we hugged kissed. And he wanted more. But I rejected him and told him I have bf. but after I leave his home and I have more feeling for him. The second party after one month I think.He asked me to go his home I wasn't so sure.But I saw he went back w another girl. I know he is kind of boy wanna relax wanna have single life do whatever. But he is not a playboy. Then I asked him one time to go his home cz I have no place to sleep that day. We were sitting on the sofa and watching tv watching movies.. And I felt cold he also turned heater for me, brought blanket for me. Then we ordered food and had dinner.I got bit drunk as I drink some wine but he didn't.. Then we went to his bed but he wanted to keep distance.. But I hugged him. And he just couldn't control and we had sex.Was really good he enjoyed it so much.And he told me he felt so guilty as his ex did the same so he feels so guilty for my bf.And he was so afraid it would happen again.But I asked him u don't like it? He said I did like it.I asked him do u like me? He said ofc I like you.Then we slept.He said goodnight first.. Then he couldn't sleep cz he is not used to sleep w people so he wanted to go another room.But finally he knows I didn't wanna sleep alone so he didn't go.The morning we woke up.He was so calm.We didn't touch and anything.Just he seems a bit nervous maybe.He said he will go gym to library.So I left. But he asked me to take his umbrella and he drive his car and gave me a lift.. And tell me if I don't feel happy about my life just get rid of it cz I told him a lot about my relationship w bf so bad.And tell me mind myself and take care.But today I asked his in fb how to fix my application he saw it but didn't reply, so does he has feeling to me or no?

[HeatherJaney]

3 things:

1. You have a boyfriend and that's proper shady on him. Please do not give me any bullshit excuses like "he treats me horribly" because then you should have broken up with him anyway in that case. You're being a bitch there.

2. This guy says he likes you; yet on the second party took another girl home? You're being used. He wants sex and you have a boyfriend so he knows with you there's no expectation of a relationship. Or he can use the oh so simple "I can't trust a girl who's cheated before."

3. My advice is sit down with them both individually. Tell your boyfriend what you did and talk through whether you should be together. Then talk to the other one and ask him if he actually likes you after you've decided you didn't want your boyfriend. If you do want your boyfriend tell the other guy it's over.

[Peloti]

Yeah I know I have being bitch. But w my bf we fighting a lot.. Is too complicated. Yeah, I should break up first. I know he must be think I am so bitch.. Actually he is my second man..I really don't know how to do it as I really have so strong feeling for him but also we are classmates and don't have so strong relationship even friendship and also I know he is that kind of guy like freedom like to be single.. So I really have no confidence to tell him anything

[soccerandfootball]

where was his parents this whole time or does he not live with his parents what ever

[neoagent1]

You just said you have a boyfriend near the end. He probably doesn't want to be the other guy in your relationship triangle.

[Peloti]

Yeah I think so.. But after the first time sex I told him I have bf.. But we had second time again.. Yeah he feels so guilty and he tried to keep distance.. I just thinking whether he has feeling for me or?

[neoagent1]

I think he has common sense enough to stop having sex with you cause your boyfriend could find out and want to do him bodily harm

[Gegalix]

There's no telling if he likes you. You've already had sex with him, and he may be done with you...you'll have to ask him

[Peloti]

Does it means he only want sex?

[Peloti]

Is it weird to ask him? Or maybe we even can't be friends?

[Anonymous1971]

Girls get drunk so they have an excuse. So just leave that as a time you had sex without the dirty feeling..

[Peloti]

Um.. But if I feel I fell in love with him? What can I do? 😔😔 thanks

[Anonymous1971]

With most anyone getting drunk makes people do things easier and increases confidence. Like have sex with a girl. He screwed you when he was drunk.. I think he's not confident enough to make a move when he's sober. I'm pretty much saying he's scared to try and get some. Get him drunk again and see if he tags you again.

[Peloti]

Yeah but I brought a bottle of wine last time in his home but he didn't drink, because he doesn't like wine! He said Irish man never drink wine hahah~ so I drank and I got drunk. Then that's why we had sex.. I was drunk and he was sober.. But after we got up he kept distance again but was warm because he even bring me to my place with his car.. So I feel really confused about his feeling