I notice a lot of the answers here are very rational, open minded. In real life emotions however cloud clear judgement and there is no time to sit in front of a monitor and ponder the correct answer.
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I have always noticed that people are better at advising others than themselves.
When you're not involved in a situation and aren't wrapped up in heavy emotion, it's always easier from the outside looking in to say what you would/wouldn't do in that situation.
However when you're the one involved, you're the one whose judgment is jaded.
decision making becomes much harder then.
Some of the answers on here show clear and reasonable thinking because it's always much easier to advise and to see the situation as a whole.
I'm thinking in logic with my brain.
While the other person is acting on emotions with their heart.1