I just get a bit nervous when I go near the subject of women and their weight. I feel as if I give them that compliment, they would assume that I noticed their previous chubby state. For example, my psychologist started doing gym and she has lost weight and I wanted to tell her that she is looking good, but I feel I may offend her because it acknowledges that I did notice her weight previously. So generally, should a guy say something or just leave that compliment?
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I mean, compliment her on her accomplishment in the gym. You guys are at the same gym, right? I didn't quite understand the sentence about the gym. But I say think about what you're complimenting her on.
But a lot of women DO get offended when someone they knew, that never complimented them before, compliments them once they've lost weight. It's like the person couldn't see past the extra weight.
That being said, compliments generally do make people feel good. Just understand the above paragraph still applies.0