Most of the time, when a girl says she's "getting close" to a guy, it turns out she is starting to fall for him, as in love (romantic kind). Is it possible for a girl to "get close" but not have romantic feelings for him, ever?
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Just getting close to a guy? Yes, if my best friend in high school counts. We weren't an item because we both realized it wasn't for us, but loved hanging out together, so that's all we did. Every night, every weekend... there was no sex, kissing, hand holding, cuddling... just a hug goodnight.
I guess I should point out he is very religious (I am not). He just liked me as a friend, and I him. When he did start to date this girl from his church, we stopped hanging out as often. When we did, it would be a group of us (his girlfriend included).
If I'm dating a guy and I say I'm getting close to him, then it could be in the early stages of falling for him.0