i want to be independent and not constantly think/want to be in a relationship or to be in love. I want to learn to be happy alone and to feel fulfilled within myself... how do i do that?
How do I learn to not want love? (to feel fulfilled)?
What Guys Said 4
I don't think you can really do that. That's like denying your human instinct to seek out a perfect mate and reproduce. If you could turn that off people would have died out a long time ago.
You can be happy in yourself while still wanting a relationship. Just work on your confidence and your insecurities. Try to get a high self-esteem. Eat healthy, exercise. You'll find that being physically healthy really boosts your mental health. And if you do something good, help those in need and set goals and accomplish them you'll become happy within yourself. :)0
I honestly don't think it can be done unless you get a religious vocation or something.0
Just learn to become satisfied with your own company and get a hobby or something. That way you won't need a guy around to spoil the peace.0
Focus on your career0
What Girls Said 3
Do something to help others and that will fill the void in your life so you become less interested in men and dating.0
Make a list of goals, write down the actions and start working to achieve them.
You will feel accomplished when you reach them, and independent as well.
Goals could be about healthy life style too.0
I don't think it's possible to not love anyone, but you can learn to love yourself and be independent while you love someone else too0
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