So, I'm in Nashville, Tennessee for a business trip and decided to venture off on my own in my free time. Again and again, I notice that I'm a loser because I do everything alone and have no friends. I don't drink and do not do bars. I hate walking past people my age who are "couples" yet I can't find a girl to hold and to love. I want to be able to shower my love for a girl and also be showered in love by a girl. I'm a great guy, but, girls don't look twice at me. What do I do? My life sucks and I don't deserve unhappiness. I've been through us all and I wish God would throw me a bone once in a while.
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First of all, self-pity is the biggest impediment to getting where you want to be. It drags you down, it's addictive, it keeps you frustrated and stuck.
You need to start thinking positive, or nothing will ever change. Take your mind off what's bad in your life and focus on what you've got, be grateful for it and think about how you can make it even better. You're not a loser if you don't succed at something, take it as a chance to learn from your mistakes and next time you'll do better. If you want friends or a girlfriend, go out, meet people, call an old friend and ask them to meet you, meet people on the internet.
You're the one who needs to go out and create your own life how you want it to be, no one is going to give it to you as a gift.0