They stopped hooking up about a year ago but have been friends, which I didn't mind cause they seemed to transition into platonic friends. But over the weekend my boyfriend go SUPER drunk and was drunk texting her saying things like: "I miss hanging out with you", "you were the best sex I've ever had", "I know we called things off but will you let me come back to you?", "my gfs going out of town soon we can mess around on the down low".. he was literally begging her to hook up again but thankful she said no and ignored his messages.
I'm very reglious and I don't believe in sexual activity before marriage, not even an hj. I understand that he's sexually frustrated and was also very drunk.
What should I do about this?
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You two are not sexually compatible. It is not fair to you to have to do things you don't want. It is also not fair to make him go without things he does want. I hate to say it, but most guys will not be faithful in a relationship like yours due to no physical intimacy. That is a huge sacrifice that most guys will not make to honour your religion. You need to respect his need and desire for physical intimacy and let him go. You need date someone else that has the same beliefs as you.1