About a million times I've wanted to take off my shoes at a party but i feel embarased. Do you think its normal?
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YES YES YES!
So when it comes to special occasions, school dances, bar mitzvahs, bat mitzvahs, sweet 16s, etc. I wear heels and I always find myself struggling to walk in them after a while.
I once had to DANCE in heels for 4 hours at a guy's bar mitzvah! Gah!
But after going to a few occasions where I had to, I just started taking them off when I felt like it, people understand your pain, and since your world is all about you, just like anyone else, you'd think people are focusing on you, but in reality you're not that important, trust me, no one is!
So loosen up and do what you want, because no one cares if you start jumping up and down or singing or taking your shoes off, people will think you're confident and even be attracted to that confidence, unless your feet smell, thats not attractive haha!
Or, if you really don't want to take your shoes off go to the bathroom to take a break, bring bandaids with you for your heels or toes or put baby powder in your shoes. :)0