So I'm young, I admit it. I haven't lived long, experienced much, been through as much as a grown adult would (though I've had more than my fair share of bullshit in life), but I have clearly noticed something with guys and gals but don't understand why. One with the way some behave in contrast to the way their girl/guy behaves, but typically another female (no offense girls). I've seen it happen uncomfortably frequently in both real life and here. I see girls ask what they should do to please him, what they should wear now that they now their boyfriend doesn't like what they originally wore, what they should do to look better for him, how they should take things the guy has said, how they should react to a rude or hurtful comment, etc. Why is it always that she wants to know what to do to make him happy? Why does it seem more and more men are just becoming disrespectful and telling a girl what he wants and how, despite how she may feel about it and how rude it may sound? Why is it that guys nowadays seem to think its acceptable to tell their own girlfriend she's fat, nasty, a slut, and bad in bed, with no regard for how she may take it? And why the hell do these females just take that shit and not stand up and say, "The fuck did you just tell me?"? Can somebody explain this to me, because this makes no sense why a female would stand the disrespect more guys seem to be subjecting their girlfriends to these days.
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You really are young and inexperienced and have watched far too much TV.
"Why is it that guys nowadays seem to think its acceptable to tell their own girlfriend she's fat, nasty, a slut, and bad in bed, with no regard for how she may take it?"
That's not a thing. Very few healthy relationships have this and all the unhealthy ones are all you hear about.1
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