I'm the only female to my knowledge that my ex has beat on and hit. I've spoken to a few of his exes and basically he's never hit them. Just like Chris Brown with Rihanna, she's the only woman he has hit. What I want to know is why do abusive men hit one woman but not the others? Even if you're an abusive man or have abused in the past you can answer this anonymously. I just need answers so that I can figure this out.
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You might be the only one he's hit, but I highly doubt you're the only woman he has abused. Abuse is not just physical - there is also emotional and psychological abuse. All are as equally damaging. In all cases, it is best to remove yourself from the abusive situation as soon as is safe for you.1