my view towards women isn't that great. I think they are all money hungry whores and I know that's not true. I'm also mad bc no girls like me fr. I'm black by the way. I think I look alright but ik my appearance isn't that great I don't wear nice attire which is my fault bc I didn't buy clothes when I had the chance. on some real shit I need your girls help I wanna be a chick magnet not a bitter lonely guy. I'm insecure bc I believe no girl wants a guy with no money, no car, no good attire etc. I messed up my last relationship bc I thought she didn't really love me but now that I think about she really did I just didn't pick up on it and she was an awesome person and I still care for her but she wants nothing to do with me I broke up with her and tried to get her back to no avail. I want to know how to avoid this. I dot want to mess up anymore of my blessings when it comes to women. what ik so far is I have trust issues, insecurity (but that's just bc I'm upset I don't have much) , a little lack of confidence, and I think all women are to just take my money and leave me. girls I need advice bad this has to stop, I'm tired of being single.
note: not desperate, could care less If anything changes but I want a female in my life. of and how do I get a women I feel is out of my league.
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Just find a girl with no car and is in the same situation as you so she can't judge. Like of course I want my boyfriend to spoil me a little, but I also love spoiling him back. Like he bought me a skirt, dress, and video game he saw I had my eye on and I snuck back to a store after I saw he was looking at these stylish $250 leather winter boots because you think I'm gonna let my man wear fucking sneakers in the snow? NO! So I went and got them for him. But trust me no girl who is 18-20 is going to expect you to have money! You are 19 you haven't even really started your adult life where are you going to get an established career and money from so fast? WE KNOW because we are in the same situation, like I'm a student I can't afford fuck all and I know 80% of the guys my age are in the same situation unless they were lucky enough to be born rich. But honestly if you are going to hate all women because of your own childish fears and insecurities then honey you are a little boy and you should not even be thinking about dating until you do some maturing!0