I was so confused in University because if University is supposed to be about learning then why do all these creepy things, like people clubbing so much exist?
I felt genuinely confused. Like all these really smart kids having all these one-night stands, it doens't make sense to see them studying like the most innocent goody-two-shoes ever and do all these other things in their spare time.
Why not read a book or go to the movies?
Then I was like... wait a minute are they just so miserable that they sleep around to make them less miserable?
Most Helpful Guy
The reason why people in general have sex is for pleasure, regardless of a student status or not.
I disagree with your observation though. The people who go clubbing and have one-night stands are usually not the intelligent students. They're usually the ones who drop out and do nothing with their lives. Most of the academically successful students don't partake in these activities. I'm assuming you live in Europe, since you used the term "University" instead of "college", but here in the United States, most of the college women I know are prudes.
The people I know who screw around the most never went to college, which is why they have several kids from several parents. Women also reach their sex drive later in life.
But relieving stress is maybe ONE factor here. It's mainly for pleasure.0
Most Helpful Girl
Why does it bother you? It's their sex life , no business of1