so i have it pretty good right now and i have confidence in myself in the most things i do.
im going to uni, i have my own apartment, i got friends, im in good shape and everything si kinda great right now. Im positive i'll do well in school and make myself even fitter, But when it comes to guys and dating i have very little to no confidence. I want guys attention, and i get attention from some guys, just not the guys i could see myself ever dating... Its not like i really make an effort, i dont have the confidence to do so, but i when guys i start talking to, just to be friendly shows that they are uncomfortable with it (could be different reasons) i feel discouraged.. i mean if that unattractive guy that im only trying to be nice to isn't interested in talking to be, its not a good thing.
My "history" is embarassing.. No boyfriend, i "dated" two guys.. nothing came out of it.. i have been on dates with guys i didn't find attractive, simly because they asked me..
Im outgoing and talkative with everyone i talk to.. unless they are very stand off -ish.. and im planning to go to the gym a lot, volunteer and maybe join some other activities. So i dont know what to do.. one part of me want to think "im unattractive, but instead of feeling sorry for myself i should just deal with it and own it", and another part of me thinks "im not unattractive.. its not like i have made an effort to talk to guys i like, and cute guys have shown interest in me before, but i know i can home across as stand off ish sometimes"
I dont know what to do... Any advice on how to deal with this kind of thing?
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You sound like a perfect girlfriend to me. The guys you talked to that get uncomfortable with you are just nervous around you, just keep talking to the guy's you like, one will snap you up. Be happy with yourself, what one person finds attractive, another won't.. everybody is different. Keep being yourself, it will happen.😉0
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