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Because you're basically grieving. Your body has the same reaction; you've lost a loved one and now you have to adjust to the change. It isn't easy. The first time I had my heart broken, I recovered in three months. But I never wanted to feel that pain again, because healing the first time was hard enough. Well, I got my heart broken again a couple years later, and as expected, it was ten times worse. My ex and I ended up getting back together, thankfully, but if we break up again I'm honestly not sure I could take it.
It's hard being so affected by a person. It's scary being so vulnerable. But it's necessary if you're gonna be in a long term relationship. Love comes with risk, but when it works, it's worth it. Hang in there!1