Do you ever feel like you are never anyone's first choice? (Page 2)
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Only every single day of my life. The only people who have never treated me like that are my mom and my brother. :/
well even my family members treat me like that
Well the guy I call my brother isn't actually my brother, we just see each other as brothers lol
But yeah, the only relative who doesn't do that to me is my mom
I'm sorry your family does that to you as well :(
eh it's alright. used to it.
All I can say is you are so young - Plenty of time to be someone's first choice - Don't give up just yet.
I'm not giving up but I also don't wanna expect smth that might not happen.
You are very young to be thinking like that plus you have a lot going for you, you are very beautiful and seem quite clever
Thanks
Oh yes, i get that when i actually go out on a date. it's this insecurity i have that in my head i think 'she'll find someone better stop being with me' :/
That could be part of a reason why I don't wanna be in a relationship actually. I know I'd always worry that someone better would come along eventually.
yes I have thought about it but I really haven't cared I guess, I don't mind being some girl's second choice when I know I'm not in love with her and neither is she... all couples I know are settling on some level
I wish I could not care.
yeah for the good or bad i've never been very emotional tbh
MissNowhere, my GAG adopted daughter :-) , you might not be there first choice , but you will be some guy's BEST choice , your journey forward as just started today ,. well maybe not but I've noticed today.
You never know when life will open a new page for you. Just dont lose your hope and love yourself.
Yeah I'll try
Oh my god yes.
It sucks but.. How do I deal?
I uh.. Don't? I haven't found out how to deal with it quite yet.
And the feeling fucking sucks. 😒
it sucks so hardcore, it's the fucking worst.
I'm no ones choice. not first, not last. just an unimportant caterpillar who will never become a butterfly.
Every caterpillar becomes a butterfly eventually hahaha 😜
Yeah I used to feel like this but I made some cool new friends so that thing changed , try meeting some new people 😃
Good for you Omar, good for you!
😂😂😂😂
Hmm yes i have. But I always follow the idea that I should never allow someone who places me on the back burner to simply care about weather or not I am a viable friend... I simply do me.
good for ya
Just a thought for you tho..
Yeah my wife did that to me, I had to prove I was the better man than the other guyshe was seeing. Now it's happening all over again and I'm done with her this time after all these years
That's shitty.
Im garbage to @arabianpwincess 197 😢
Altho i nvr gave up on chasing ma true LUV cuz i have the gutz to nvr give up! 😡
Hopefully one day ma stingy Pwincess will kum to realize ma LUV for her 💏
We egyptians got a word that exactly fits u , you're sleeping on your dick
@arabianpwincess197 🍃
@Omar5881 im sleepin' next to ma Pwincess in her throne rdy to be crown Pwince by the Pwincess itself c;
such a player
@arabianprincess197 why did i still got it wrong 😷
No babe. She doesn't want meh so i craii :'(
Thats why i need ur LUV miss 😔
@arabianpwinces197 solly i bad :((
@arabianpwincess197 frackkkkkkk! I give up on LUV. Why u do dis God :<
I think u are blocked.
Does that mean its now U+ Me miss? '-'
Nope.
Awww Asian boi finish last i craii 😭😭😭
Stop tagging her, you're annoying her with notifications
@moebond2 she was ma first LUV. Now get lost u wannabe Supah hero ;P
Lol oh! I would do the sametbh to my first love😂😂😂
Yeah I can relate to an extent. I think we all have friends or situations where something like that occurs a lot. I think that's where groups are important, the group of guys I'm close with, we just do whole group invites to things... nobody feels as though they're more or less important.
But with other people who it's just them and I as friends, yeah sometimes you can tell they'd prefer someone else before you.
Way too often actually. Sucks when you make people priorities and you're only one of there options.
Omg yes, just makes me wanna stop putting in any effort in making some people so important to me :(
Ditto babe. But those people aren't worth your time anyway.
How... How did you know!(?)
It's not like that with me for friends it for guys it's true. Though when that happens it's usually this one friend that always is number one.
Story of my life there's always a better guy out there for the girl I like and there's always a better friend or whatever. oh well Only 50 or so years before I die patoiently waiting
what a nice thought lol
I have only one friend who I think sees me as their best friend. For anyone else I'm like a second or third or fourth or whatever choice.
well at least it's SOMEONE! even if just 1 person
You may feel like garbage right now, but I'm sure you have someone too!
Dude, if I did, I'd know...
Yes except with a couple people... sadly they aren't my first choices.
I want to have a friendship with an equal amount of interest on both ends
always, so I made me my own first.
I do what I want, when I want, with who I want
good for ya I guess
Almost always 2nd. I'm like supporting character in every case. But I don't mind being 2nd choice. I've rarely gone below 2nd. Consistently 2nd.