How intense are the gender wars in America? because every once in a while i hear something negative about the friction between the genders and share your experiences how much do the opposite genders hate each other
Most Helpful Girl
I feel as though it is mostly online and that it is blown like waaay out of proportion. Some people get really into it, and that is normal enough when you think about how many people enjoy arguments. We each have our own personalities and flaws and I feel that gender does not really play into it very much unless the person does not think for themselves.
That said, there are legitimate issues with how society treats gender roles that need to be addressed before we will stop seeing sentiments like 'girls are so mean/confusing/jealous' and 'men are so aggressive/rude/insensitive/etc'.0
Most Helpful Guy
America is a big place. In some places it is really bad, and guys can't even offer to push a shopping cart for a woman, without her freaking out. Those women have been taught they can't afford to surrender any control to a man, no matter how small that control is. In other parts of the country it isn't bad at all.
It is pretty bad in my area. Here a lot of women like to shame men that don't "act like real men" but then freak out and get offended by the smallest comment about women being held to female standards. These are they types of feminists that think only women can be victims, and that men need to suck it up and take it like a man. Which in turn have turned a lot of men that use to be feminists into anti feminists. I even know several different groups of women that I have heard laughing about a wife cutting off her husbands penis. It takes a lot of sexism to find that funny. I don't know any guys that would laugh at that happening to a woman. Here feminism took a turn for the worse, and the gender war has created a great deal of distrust, and loss of respect on both sides.
I know women that have moved here from other parts of the states, or from other states entirely, and most of those women are just as sweet as they could be. So it really depends on where you are, as to what you have experienced.1