i have becime depressed and attempted suicide twice because of this so please someone tell me how i can acccept being ugly
Most Helpful Guy
I used to be ugly because i had ugly duckling syndrom. I just accepted it. I said you know, im ugly, im just going to go for ugly girls and fat chicks and be happy. Have fun with it. and you're way more likely to find a personality you like in an ugly person than you are in a attractive person. Not always but usually being attractive you're whole life made it easier to get attention and let them get away with their flaws. Meanwhile ugly people had to be interesting or good conversationalists, etc. just good qualities for people to like them and like to talk to them.
Its true but not always. Being attractive now i notice a difference in conversations with a not so attractive girl vs a attractive girl a noticeable amount of the time. The good looking girl will usually start talking about herself immediately and sometimes the conversation is always about her while a not so attractive girl will ask about you or the guy she's talking to. Or she'll try to make it actively engaging for both of you with back and forth conversation. The reason is because they could get away with it because guys found them attractive and would still like talking to them even though they do that.
So i suggest work on a new skill, try to get good at something thats going to help you in your career or life. Also try to be a good conversationalist and be more attractive personality wise. you'll catch that guy with a personality, you'll have connections and more friend groups, and be happier in the long run. Its okay being ugly, i hope this helps you.0
Most Helpful Girl
I've sad to hear that you have such a low opinion of yourself, I used to be the same way. You have to love you, because you were born with you and you're gonna die with you. Please love yourself because you are beautiful the way you are. You just need to work on things, eat healthy and work out if that makes you feel better doing those things, do things that make you happy, wear things that make you feel confident and comfy. Someone thinks you're beautiful, you need to believe it too. Sometimes you just need to look in the mirror and remind you're self that you are a badass. I hope this helped a little. Remember you're a beautiful person and worthy of life💗1