Just crossed my mind; Longest relationship I had was 5 months, everything else in my life I just seem to fail at; I can't make decent friends and get so much shit my way constantly, I feel like a failure.
Most Helpful Girl
thank apple pie i am not the only one... I am a complete loser... no job... bad at college... I have one last semester and if I can't get my grade up I will never be able to go back... I haven't told my mom yet... I had never had boyfriend or never really was allowed to interact with guy or girl outside school and became a homebody... I stay at home all the time or I go out with my family which isn't the same and i have a muffin top... The only thing that make me somewhat happy is jogging outside with my old playlist... and I haven't made time for that... Its lonely when you don't have anyone to talk to and your fat and you can't buy pretty clothes0
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Most Helpful Guy
No you're not a failure. Believe it or not, you're starting like most people do. Early 20's is meant to be a time of constant discovery and experience, not necessarily a time of cementing your life (You can, if you know exactly what you what... that'll probably change as time goes on though).
When I was 20 I thought I knew what I was supposed to do, at 25 I KNOW what I'm supposed to do... and guess what? At 30, I'll dislike and do something else. That's life.
Also keep in mind that your life can change in a matter of seconds. Things might not be great at this instant, but when the ball starts rolling, it takes a tremendous amount of f*ck ups to bring it to a complete halt.
You're still very young and despite what you ascribe to yourself, you're doing just fine for your age.1