Seems like a 'silly' question.. But I was just thinking, if we really really force ourselves to 'love' someone that's so horrible and bad.. Can we? If we really try.. So if we try, we can make ourselves fall for anyone, right?
Most Helpful Guy
No, I would disagree. You can't force yourself to love someone. I would imagine every arranged marriage would be happy if that were the case and many less divorces would happen each year.
I get the feeling that many couples want to love the other person wholeheartedly, but they simply cannot because they don't have chemistry and such. If couples have issues with it, I doubt one could just fall in love with some completely random and horrible person.
Some things aren't meant to work. Forcing them makes it worse.2
Most Helpful Girl
We can try, often without success. If certain factors just aren't there such as compatible values and personalities and often, attraction. It would be very hard to fall for someone if those three things did not exist. I don't think it would be the right thing to do. Real love should never be forced because true love should be built.1