Why do I blame myself for being mistreated?

My recent ex boyfriend was manipulative and emotionally abusive and cruel. On a rational level I know this. But in my heart I feel like it's my fault, like I just wasn't good enough and I want him back. Why?


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What Guys Said 2

  • I know exactly how you feel my last girlfriend was alwlys cheating on me. I always felt like it was my fault cuz I wasn't doing a good enough job satisfying her so she had to get it else ware

  • You're emotionally damaged that's why, you have low self esteem, no dignity, no self respect, nada! You're just an empty shell and you need to fix yourself before you wreck yourself. Good luck.


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