Hello all and thanks for reading my story/question. (if you wanna skip the story, the bottom line is my question)
Lately I've had some changes in my life (different job, that cuts a lot of my free time, social life and when I see my boyfriend, long hours and it's very far from home) that got me quite stressed and worried. I worried mostly about the impact of this on my relationship. Because of this stress I haven't been my fun self lately and I feel kinda guilty towards my boyfriend. He understands and doesn't think I've changed, he's very understanding. Now I know it will all fall into place and things will get better, but I miss my old fun, bubbly self, the person my boyfriend fell in love with.
So my question is: when you're stressed and worried, how do you set it aside long term and become your old self again?
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Me personally... If this job were causing the type of change in me that you mentioned and adding that much stress on my life and relationship it would have to go. I have worked jobs much like this that produced a better payday than the job I presently have but if it sucks the joy out of life then all Thad left is the paycheck , very unfair and unacceptable trade for me0