so i used to be close with my friends until they got distance since this new girl came
lately I've been feeling depressed and i want to find a way to keep my mind off them so i dont cut
can u guys help?
Most Helpful Guy
The most important thing to understand is that cutting yourself will not make the problem go away. Yes, it's a cry for help, but nine times out of ten, there's no one to listen. On GAG, there are girls and guys that will always listen, even though we might be on the other side of the world. We have the time, and we want to listen. We do have some trolls here, too many for my liking, but you have to ignore them.
Make some friends here first. That will get your confidence going again. There are lots of girls and guys here that would be more than happy to chat with you by PM without getting pervy.2
Most Helpful Girl
What is it with Caucasians and cutting themselves?
Look, young one, just know that u cutting on yourself will only hurt you physically. Those bleeding scars won't magically appear on your friends' body and hurt them. Only u will feel the burning pain. You don't want that.
As far as your friends are concerned, I understand completely. It hurts like the dickens when they start hanging out more with someone who just got in the picture. What I've learned is that the people who truly love u will always stick by u and have your best interests at heart. Even if they haven't spoken to u in a few days, they'll still love u and treat u right.
True friends can't be taken away from you because y'all share a special bond that no one else has.
Have you tried getting to know the new girl? If u start spending one on one time with her and really get to know her, u might find your newest bff. Or, u could also find that she's the lousiest louse and could warn your friends about her.1
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