It's pretty hard to find that when you're ugly like myself, so how do I gather confidence if I have nothing to be confident in?
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confidence has nothing to with how you look, so get that out of your head, that's utter bullshit. No women is going to come running up to unless you johnny depp, brad pitt etc.
Confidence is a skill, and that skill needs to be worked on. No one is just born confident. The only way to get confidence with women, or anything in life, is just put yourself and their and see what happens. Now if you want a girlfriend, you are just going to have get yourself out your comfort zone, and start talking to them. if you might have ask 100 girls out, for 1 girl to say yes to you. That's life, if you want a girlfriend then you are going to have to be willing to take massive amounts of rejection. If want you success in life, then you have to be willing to pay the price for it.1