Im 5 feet and 130 pounds. I know im overweight. I want to be around 110 pounds which i think is perfect, and my boyfriend doesn't mind im this weight, but i am realizing that i really dont like my body anymore. I want to change my appearence drastically. I have a huge sex drive and so does my boyfriend... do you think if i set this to be an insentive to lose the weight, this is can be enough motivation to reach my goal of losing 20 pounds? Or is this pretty ridiculous?
Most Helpful Guy
You're going to deny intimacy with your boyfriend because you're insecure when he's the One person you should be able to take your clothes off in front of no matter what because he won't care
But you don't weigh much anyway 130 pound is like 57 kilos which is fuck all which means you're small anyway
But you're going to deny sex therefore a certain intimacy because you're insecure when that's the very thing that could make you feel better about yourself
Most Helpful Girl
First, I do not think ridiculous, those are your feelings and I will not say you are ridiculous. Do I think your thoughts are misguided? yes I do. No one can tell you if that is enough incentive. Only you can answer the question is if that is enough incentive... Problem is you should not be doing it to please anyone else or get something, it should be purely for you and in general your health, not just I want to look good. Do you have a fear behind the not wanting to have sex because of how you feel about your body? Your boyfriend is telling you he doesn't mind and I would believe that and since you have a big sex drive just go with it. Find things you do like about your body.1